Relieve stress with a girl’s night in

Ever feel overwhelmed? Is the stress getting to you? Well, I’m right there with you. I feel stressed very often and sometimes its hard to get out of the funk. It’s getting a little old having very little free time for myself. I’m sure you can relate.

It’s important to make time to wind down and relax. One of my favorite ways to wind down usually involves some wine and a favorite show. Relaxing seems very simple but I’m finding it harder and harder to squeeze it into my tight schedule.

I’ve also noticed lately, not only am I not making time for myself, I’m not making time for my friends. I started looking into it and found Fun And Healthy Ways To Spend A Girls’ Night, written by Kayla Itsines. It makes so much sense and the idea of making time to relax with friends is so simple, but can be hard to juggle with everything else. I think we all just get so caught up in what we’re doing, and we seem to forget how important friendships are. I tend to think when I’m feeling overwhelmed or upset that it’s just me dealing with it, but it’s not.

You’re probably wondering how this pertains to fitness or exercise or anything I’ve ever talked about before, so here it goes: you can’t be healthy and happy until you take care of not only yourself but the relationships in your life.

Next time when you’re filling in your planner, try making more time for the friendships in your life. And I don’t just mean a night out at the bar. Sure, I like a couple (maybe 6) vodka cranberries at the bar but sometimes it’s nicer to avoid the obnoxious crowds and just have a night in.

Ideas for girl’s night in:

Wine & Dye

Who doesn’t like a nice glass of wine to end a busy day. Sure, you could drink wine and watch TV but where’s the fun in that. Change the usual up a bit and add a little hair dye into the mix. If you’re like me and on a budget, boxed hair dye is the way to go, but it can be hard to do it by yourself. And very boring might I add. Grab your friends and have fun with it. It’s super easy so don’t worry. Make it even better by add your favorite snack.



Going to the gym or to a fitness class is great to do with a group of friends, but what if you don’t have time or don’t feel like dealing with that many people. No worries! You can exercise at home with your friends using workout videos. My favorite are yoga videos because they help you to tone your body and relieve stress.

Face masks & Abs

If I’m being honest, buying face masks are one of my guilty pleasures. I have a ton of them but continue to buy more. Most face masks stay on for about 10-15 minutes and in that time, I’m usually scrolling through social media (as if I haven’t done that earlier). Anyways, the time to let face masks work, is a great amount of time to get your abs burning. Friends and face masks, make abs not as awful, so try it next time you’re cleaning your pores.




Confessions of a fitness wannabe

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Confession #1: I have spent hours scrolling through Instagram fitness pages. And when I say hours…I mean hours.

My original interest in following fitness accounts was to one day reach that same pinnacle of fitness. I would say to myself maybe one day I’ll have 6 pack abs, be able to squat 250 lbs., or be able bench press my own body weight.

Scrolling through fitness accounts was my way of gaining motivation to go to the gym, and it worked…at first. There’s always this notion that with the right amount of sweat and tears the seemingly impossible goal, is possible, but only if you really want it. I was jealous of these gorgeous people and their impeccable bodies, but I was never going to go to the full extreme that these pages were promoting.

And I’m okay with that.

Confession #2: I have purchased whey protein, detox tea, green tea pills, and many other weight loss or exercise supplements.

All of which have rotted away in my cabinet. I’m pretty sure there is still a tub of chocolate whey protein in the very back of my parents’ pantry, collecting dust (oops).

Confession #3: I went on multiple tinder dates with this guy last year, to get the fitness inside scoop.

Okay I lied, in all honesty I swiped right because of his sculpted thighs and irresistible man bun, but I mean who wouldn’t. Am I, right?

The guy was a professional weightlifter and it showed in every way possible; the pictures didn’t lie. It was all fun and games until he brought out the scale. Before eating any food, this man weighed everything he was going to consume, and recorded it into his fitness app. Accounting for each item of food, weighing the contents, calculating calories burned throughout the day, and limiting yourself to very few food options, doesn’t sound fun to me.

Is that really a healthy way of living? Weighing food is for grocery stores and restaurant kitchens. Weighing food for a dietary plan, well that’s just not something I can get on board with.

Confession #4: I have tried pre-workout and I am not a fan.

Pre-workout may be great for others; that is if you like to experience what can only be described as tiny heart attacks. Just kidding, it wasn’t that bad. In fact, I really didn’t notice much of a change in my energy levels at all. In a 2017 International Journal of Exercise Science study, it found that pre-workout only increases energy and strength levels by 4-8 percent.

Really makes you wonder what all the hype is about and what exactly is in those supplements.


Whatever happened to simple health and fitness. My life is complicated enough; I don’t have time to get in a two-hour gym session every day, count my daily macros, or obsess about my caloric intake. If that’s for you, great, but it’s not for me.

I now believe simple is better. Be creative with exercise. You don’t have to just be a gym rat to be fit. Have fun with it. You won’t stick to it if you hate it or die of boredom each time you drag yourself to the gym.

creative. simple. exercise.