Life’s a balancing act

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After taking about a two-month hiatus from the gym, I finally dragged my tired self to the gym, this week. Okay, more like my roommate completely ignored my strong unwillingness to go and dragged me there, but either way I went.

I was not looking forward to it at all because I knew the workout would be crap, especially since I had just downed McDonald’s before going. But once I was standing on the treadmill staring at all the TVs in front of me, I decided I might as well make the best of it. Turned out it wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be.

I don’t know about you, but this is a reoccurring cycle for me. I’ll have a ton of motivation; go to the gym, make it to work on time, finish assignments early, and be an overall productive person, but before you know it my motivation just disappears.

I really didn’t understand my bodies’ constant flip flop, which was very discouraging to me. Maybe deep down I’m just a lazy bum.

But then after finding How to Stay ‘Balanced’ at 28, written by blogger SENIINTHEBOX, today I realized there are other people dealing with the same frustration. I was shocked at all the similar experiences and thoughts we shared.

It dawned on me that my problem isn’t that I’m a lazy bum (okay, maybe it is a little). My problem is finding the right balance for MY life. Finding the right balance for your life is all about finding moderation in all that you do. We’ve all probably heard this before. I mean I can still vividly hear my dad saying, ‘everything in moderation’ when I was a kid, as he watched me eat 5 scoops of ice cream.

Okay, so logically that makes sense but what about those nights where you eat an entire pack of Oreo’s because it’s just one of those days. What about when you’ve spent more than half of the day stuck in your pj’s, ignoring responsibilities. Well is that okay? Some would very strongly say no but let me tell you it’s normal and it’s human.

Being a hardcore perfectionist makes living in moderation a hard concept for me to grasp, but I realized to succeed you need to be forgiving towards yourself. Don’t throw in the towel just because you ate the entire bag of chips instead of the 5 you promised you’d eat. Or because you ate an entire box of Fractured Prune donuts like I did at the beach this past summer (I later regretted this decision).


Don’t let it stop you. Life is all one big balancing act so don’t panic if you slip up a little bit. Being able to find YOUR own flexibility is what it’s all about.

Sticking to a strict diet or exercise regime might work for others but for me it usually ends in failure. I know once I start being more forgiving towards myself in all aspects of my life and find the right balance, that I’ll be able succeed MY way.

Find what works for you. If you have any ideas for how to stay motivated or how you’ve succeeded in living a balanced life, I’d love to hear them! Feel free to share them in the comments below.


balance. flexibility. moderation.



Confessions of a fitness wannabe

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Confession #1: I have spent hours scrolling through Instagram fitness pages. And when I say hours…I mean hours.

My original interest in following fitness accounts was to one day reach that same pinnacle of fitness. I would say to myself maybe one day I’ll have 6 pack abs, be able to squat 250 lbs., or be able bench press my own body weight.

Scrolling through fitness accounts was my way of gaining motivation to go to the gym, and it worked…at first. There’s always this notion that with the right amount of sweat and tears the seemingly impossible goal, is possible, but only if you really want it. I was jealous of these gorgeous people and their impeccable bodies, but I was never going to go to the full extreme that these pages were promoting.

And I’m okay with that.

Confession #2: I have purchased whey protein, detox tea, green tea pills, and many other weight loss or exercise supplements.

All of which have rotted away in my cabinet. I’m pretty sure there is still a tub of chocolate whey protein in the very back of my parents’ pantry, collecting dust (oops).

Confession #3: I went on multiple tinder dates with this guy last year, to get the fitness inside scoop.

Okay I lied, in all honesty I swiped right because of his sculpted thighs and irresistible man bun, but I mean who wouldn’t. Am I, right?

The guy was a professional weightlifter and it showed in every way possible; the pictures didn’t lie. It was all fun and games until he brought out the scale. Before eating any food, this man weighed everything he was going to consume, and recorded it into his fitness app. Accounting for each item of food, weighing the contents, calculating calories burned throughout the day, and limiting yourself to very few food options, doesn’t sound fun to me.

Is that really a healthy way of living? Weighing food is for grocery stores and restaurant kitchens. Weighing food for a dietary plan, well that’s just not something I can get on board with.

Confession #4: I have tried pre-workout and I am not a fan.

Pre-workout may be great for others; that is if you like to experience what can only be described as tiny heart attacks. Just kidding, it wasn’t that bad. In fact, I really didn’t notice much of a change in my energy levels at all. In a 2017 International Journal of Exercise Science study, it found that pre-workout only increases energy and strength levels by 4-8 percent.

Really makes you wonder what all the hype is about and what exactly is in those supplements.


Whatever happened to simple health and fitness. My life is complicated enough; I don’t have time to get in a two-hour gym session every day, count my daily macros, or obsess about my caloric intake. If that’s for you, great, but it’s not for me.

I now believe simple is better. Be creative with exercise. You don’t have to just be a gym rat to be fit. Have fun with it. You won’t stick to it if you hate it or die of boredom each time you drag yourself to the gym.

creative. simple. exercise.